“I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.” 
― Audrey Hepburn

normally, during worldcup season, pple will not expect me to blog or talk anything else except for the ball, but today, lets talk about le boyfriend! =)
Le boyfriend and me has to go through alot to be together, in fact we are still WIP..
however, I really really greatly appreciate the tolerance and patience he has put into all this, its tough on him, I'm sure..
So.. we do have our fair share of disagreements and all, a typical couple although we both hate to fight.. but we always manage to keep it down and at the back of my mind, I always reminded myself I can't be always correct, I don't have to win all the time.. he too, always tries to let me have my ways.. =)

So! how far can we go? I'm not sure... but I certainly hope its a learning process we both get to enjoy and get the best out of it, forever is an overstatement, how about for as much as we could

okie.. spain is out... poor them... was it a curse from me coz i supported them? better luck for brazil and italy ah... kekez

the famous moment in 1994- bebeto and romario..
can this happen again?

Worldcup fever 2014

Dear all, its the soccer season again! *Squeals in excitement*.. Once every 4 yrs... get excited with ME

and here I am, in the midst of work & watching worldcup at wee hours again... like a panda bear, plus age is catching up so I can only watch selective matches with my fav teams playing..

Whos ur favorite???!!?!?!?!

Mine is still Brasil, Espana (despite their outstanding loss) and Italia... =)

OK... if Ozil & Podolski plays real well stay top form, maybe abit of Germany too...

update

its funny and ironic, now that im busy and employed, i really wish i wasn't... have been trying to get rid of that fact for ages but becoz i'm bonded by contract, I have to wait for another 1-2 months for my freedom and happiness...sigh! why pple r retaining me when i don't have the heart to stay..

now that I've learnt my lesson (yet again), my next plan and step should be more clearer, and i will definitely take it slowly... and don't ever ever sign contracts with unreasonable clauses.. 

hello!

here I am, I didn't abandon this blog... im still around

sorry for the absence, alot of things have been going on in my life... but well...some were happy some were depressing most were mundane... some were just.... hard to tell... i couldn't figure out which are the ones to be told.. so ya... i go MIA 

I cant exactly say im uber busy right now, cuz ive been jobless for like a fortnight maybe? this is happening like: for the first time in my life that im unemployed and unsure whats next? so if u ask me if I'm by any bit affected, I wouldn't say I'm not... but still, I'm fine, taking the break to do my uni report which I haven't found the momentum to start at all.. it's scary and gasping how i can waste so much of my time so far underachieving..  

My mood has been as deepen and low as my recent luck, after getting into accident, poor health and mishaps... but strangely, my well-being is pretty good, and I'm all thankful to the very thoughtful person beside me all this time.... he's the main reason for my happiness and warmth in my heart... counting my blessings each day for this... grateful =) 


Sometimes u are hit with the best and worst thing in life at the same time

then u start to be overwhelmed by it and clueless.. stay strong and follow your heart.
at the end of the tunnel, you'll see the light.. =)

  

Do more of what makes you happy

Do more of what makes you happy =)

p/s: Can't wait to watch my Hunger Games 2! Finnick! Katniss! Gale! Happy Weekend peeps! XOXO

原来 喜欢是以自己为中心， 喜怒哀乐是为了自己， 爱是以对方为主， 喜怒哀乐是因为对方.

Loving my favorite boy..

In relationships, I always ask myself what I have to give first, and not what I get to take..
Giving love and loving is much enjoyable without expectations and conditions in receiving, and trying my best in it that's why I will never have regrets when it comes to this as I enjoy every bit of it.. As watching your love ones happy makes one feels wonderful isn't it?

But sometimes I admit it's just not that easy..  When I'm independent, men will want me to be more needy as a girl, but after training me to be more needy, they find you too clingy.. Hahahaha it's always such contradictions that make me puzzled.. They trained you to b more needy, then when u cling, they disappear or is busy and you get upset and abit of uncertainty, and when u get insecure, they find u annoying.. Then they expect u to be more independent and stronger which is less needy actually..

Okok.. whatever it is.... lets try to give love a way that best deem fit..  still try to stick to an unconditional love perception even if it seems impossible.. Learning and fumbling, working towards the best things in life..

my life is wonderful because I have all of you =)

我自私、缺乏耐心和安全感。我會犯错，也常會在状况外而難以控制。如果你不能應付我最差的一面,那麼你也不值得擁有我最好的一面 ——瑪麗蓮夢露

I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you surely as well don't deserve me at my best ——Marilyn Monroe

to my favourite boy =) I've waited all my life to cross this line to the only thing thats true, so I will not hide its time to try, anything to be with you

True – Ryan Cabrera

I won’t talk
I won’t breathe
I won’t move till you finally see
that you belong with me

you might think
I don’t look
but deep inside in the corner of my mind
I’m attached to you
mmmm

I’m weak
it’s true
cause I’m afraid to know the answer
do you want me too?
cause my heart keeps falling faster

[chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
i’ts time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

you don’t know
what you do
everytime you walk into the room
I’m afraid to move

I’m weak
it’s true
I’m just scared to know the ending
do you see me too?
do you even know you meant me!

[Chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
its time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

I know when I go
I’ll be on my way to you
the way that’s true

[chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
its time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

Love is unconditional when it endures despite unfavorable circumstances

Saw this article:

Think of love as an action, not a feeling. A feeling is something we get from someone, and when we stop getting it, we often change our behavior somehow. If we have to do something, or be a certain way, in order to receive love, that love is conditional. Instead, if you start thinking of love as the behavior itself, the reward becomes the feeling you get when you act a certain way, not when someone else acts a certain way. And you can continue acting this way all the time, regardless of how other people behave--it becomes an act of generosity. As Stephanie Dowrick says, "love is not love except when it is generous." Feelings can not last, but you can renew them continuously with new actions.

Always ask yourself, what is the most loving thing I can do for this particular person in this particular moment? Love isn't really one size fits all; what might be a loving act toward one person could be harmful to another person, in that it doesn't help them get closer to becoming a truly happy human being. Unconditional love is a new decision you need to make in every situation, not a hard and fast rule you can apply to everyone all the time.

Remember that love doesn't mean making sure someone is always comfortable. If you believe loving someone is about fostering their growth, most people acknowledge that pain and discomfort are part of growth, and if you shield someone from all pain or discomfort, you are not loving them. So, don't confuse loving someone with blindly making them comfortable, satisfying their desires, and shielding them from any kind of pain. If you do, you are only making it difficult for them to grow as human beings.

Consider that if love is unconditional, it is given to everyone freely, including yourself. Another reason the previous step is important is because if you don't follow it, you're well on your way to becoming a people pleaser, which means you are not being unconditionally loving to yourself. Instead, recognize the times when doing what is best for you will occasionally have you out of sync with another - Maryanne Radmacher calls this understanding "the difference between tolerance and allowing mediocrity a plot in your garden."

Forgive. Even if someone doesn't apologize, it's inherently loving to both them and yourself to let go of your anger and resentment toward them. Keep in mind Piero Ferrucci's advice that forgiving "is not something we do, but something we are."Again, don't mistake being willing to forgive for letting people walk all over you. How you act (lovingly) toward the person will vary, but your ability to practice unconditional love will be clouded if you hold on to negative feelings.

Allow yourself to reap the benefits. If you've ever had a moment when you practiced unconditional love, whether spontaneously or deliberately, you probably felt energized and liberated, not drained and burdened. The more often you feel the the former after acting a certain way, the more you're loving unconditionally.

Tips

• Love means wishing others to be happy. Love is about what we give not what we get.
• Practice doing something for someone each day with love alone. Do it without expecting anything in return. Do it without anyone knowing it. For example, you can pray for your friends or family members who live far away. You can send email, text, or a letter to someone whom you have not been in touch with for quite a while. Give compliments to other people. You can give a smile to a stranger passing by. You can pet your dog or cat. Do small things with great love each day. And watch your heart expand to more love.
• Many people feel a sweep of unconditional love upon the birth of a child. That's not to say everyone does or should, or that you can't feel it otherwise. It just may be a useful way for some people to remember what unconditional love is supposed to feel like.
• Be nice and show love to toxic people. Being kind will pay off one day for both parties.

In times of crisis, we stay unite..

Someone so nice, so gentle, so thoughtful, so innocent, so capable, so candid, so fun, so responsible, so....

yes... totally worth to protect and to respect.. to care to admire from distance.. will never hurt u.. 

so ya... Give me that wisdom. That wisdom.

RIP Cory Monteith :(

fantastic 12 yrs with u!

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fav korean actresses

Our Ace Song Ji Hyo =)

Park Min Young

I never expect myself to fall for her, she's not a striking beauty, but I did. Ha Ji won =)

who's yours??

who's ur favourite korean actor? (*edited)

my top 3 choices, not in order of preferences.. 

shall post about fav actresses in another post...

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have. - Woody Allen