to my favourite boy =) I've waited all my life to cross this line to the only thing thats true, so I will not hide its time to try, anything to be with you

True – Ryan Cabrera

I won’t talk
I won’t breathe
I won’t move till you finally see
that you belong with me

you might think
I don’t look
but deep inside in the corner of my mind
I’m attached to you
mmmm

I’m weak
it’s true
cause I’m afraid to know the answer
do you want me too?
cause my heart keeps falling faster

[chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
i’ts time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

you don’t know
what you do
everytime you walk into the room
I’m afraid to move

I’m weak
it’s true
I’m just scared to know the ending
do you see me too?
do you even know you meant me!

[Chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
its time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

I know when I go
I’ll be on my way to you
the way that’s true

[chorus]
I’ve waited all my life to cross this line
to the only thing thats true
so I will not hide
its time to try anything to be with you
all my life I’ve waited
this is true

Love is unconditional when it endures despite unfavorable circumstances

Saw this article:

Think of love as an action, not a feeling. A feeling is something we get from someone, and when we stop getting it, we often change our behavior somehow. If we have to do something, or be a certain way, in order to receive love, that love is conditional. Instead, if you start thinking of love as the behavior itself, the reward becomes the feeling you get when you act a certain way, not when someone else acts a certain way. And you can continue acting this way all the time, regardless of how other people behave--it becomes an act of generosity. As Stephanie Dowrick says, "love is not love except when it is generous." Feelings can not last, but you can renew them continuously with new actions.

Always ask yourself, what is the most loving thing I can do for this particular person in this particular moment? Love isn't really one size fits all; what might be a loving act toward one person could be harmful to another person, in that it doesn't help them get closer to becoming a truly happy human being. Unconditional love is a new decision you need to make in every situation, not a hard and fast rule you can apply to everyone all the time.

Remember that love doesn't mean making sure someone is always comfortable. If you believe loving someone is about fostering their growth, most people acknowledge that pain and discomfort are part of growth, and if you shield someone from all pain or discomfort, you are not loving them. So, don't confuse loving someone with blindly making them comfortable, satisfying their desires, and shielding them from any kind of pain. If you do, you are only making it difficult for them to grow as human beings.

Consider that if love is unconditional, it is given to everyone freely, including yourself. Another reason the previous step is important is because if you don't follow it, you're well on your way to becoming a people pleaser, which means you are not being unconditionally loving to yourself. Instead, recognize the times when doing what is best for you will occasionally have you out of sync with another - Maryanne Radmacher calls this understanding "the difference between tolerance and allowing mediocrity a plot in your garden."

Forgive. Even if someone doesn't apologize, it's inherently loving to both them and yourself to let go of your anger and resentment toward them. Keep in mind Piero Ferrucci's advice that forgiving "is not something we do, but something we are."Again, don't mistake being willing to forgive for letting people walk all over you. How you act (lovingly) toward the person will vary, but your ability to practice unconditional love will be clouded if you hold on to negative feelings.

Allow yourself to reap the benefits. If you've ever had a moment when you practiced unconditional love, whether spontaneously or deliberately, you probably felt energized and liberated, not drained and burdened. The more often you feel the the former after acting a certain way, the more you're loving unconditionally.

Tips

• Love means wishing others to be happy. Love is about what we give not what we get.
• Practice doing something for someone each day with love alone. Do it without expecting anything in return. Do it without anyone knowing it. For example, you can pray for your friends or family members who live far away. You can send email, text, or a letter to someone whom you have not been in touch with for quite a while. Give compliments to other people. You can give a smile to a stranger passing by. You can pet your dog or cat. Do small things with great love each day. And watch your heart expand to more love.
• Many people feel a sweep of unconditional love upon the birth of a child. That's not to say everyone does or should, or that you can't feel it otherwise. It just may be a useful way for some people to remember what unconditional love is supposed to feel like.
• Be nice and show love to toxic people. Being kind will pay off one day for both parties.

In times of crisis, we stay unite..

Someone so nice, so gentle, so thoughtful, so innocent, so capable, so candid, so fun, so responsible, so....

yes... totally worth to protect and to respect.. to care to admire from distance.. will never hurt u.. 

so ya... Give me that wisdom. That wisdom.

RIP Cory Monteith :(

fantastic 12 yrs with u!

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fav korean actresses

Our Ace Song Ji Hyo =)

Park Min Young

I never expect myself to fall for her, she's not a striking beauty, but I did. Ha Ji won =)

who's yours??

who's ur favourite korean actor? (*edited)

my top 3 choices, not in order of preferences.. 

shall post about fav actresses in another post...

The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have. - Woody Allen

A woman with a pretty heart is truly the most beautiful.. putting all those superficial judgement aside, being pretty in the heart is the most important.. why waste so much time being a vain pot but neglect to be a better person and nurture the inner beauty in one..  

Geu namjaga naraneun geol anayoAlmyeonseodo ireoneun geon anijyoMoreulkkeoya geudaen babonikka~

Ktv list

playlist =)

awesome

Life is a never-ending learning process and I have got alot alot to learn =) :

10 qualities of awesome people...


1) Accepting people for who they are

The awesome person understands that everyone is different and should be treated equally.

The next time you face someone who has a different upbringing or has an alternative perspective on life, do not be too quick to argue over contentious matters or cast preconceived notions. Embrace diversity and understand their points of view even though you may not agree. You do not have to be a yes man, but allowing differences to exist in your social circles will get you one step closer to the hearts of many and seal their approval.

2) Forgive when it's impossible to do so

It is difficult to let go of remarks and actions that are hurtful, but a sensible person recognises that all of us have faults and err one too many. In times where exacting revenge may be the best thing to do, forgiving and having the heart to stomach a person's flaws is a selfless trait because no one is perfect, as they say.

When someone clearly has committed an error, tough love may be a possible way of reaching out but take the liberty of letting the person know that it is all right to make mistakes as long as they are not repeated.

3) Recognises boundaries but dares to challenge

What makes a person different from others is his or her ability to understand rules and history but yet offer a new perspective on matters. Challenging authority or age-old perceptions can be just baseless noise if there is no appreciation for why things are the way they are. That, to us, is the hallmark of an awesome person.


4) A go-getter, not a quitter

No, an awesome person ain't just going to sit around wait for awesomeness to come to them. They go for it.

What is certain is that awesomeness is not attained without a little struggle and a lot of chasing. Start small by looking at things you have always wanted to achieve, even if it does seem like a long shot. Now, break that up into small, attainable steps and hope that Lady Luck casts its longing gaze on your newfound zest for ambition. Most importantly, do not stop at it because every small battle won is a step closer to awesomeness.

5) Always there whenever, wherever

At work, they never look unfazed and always seem to be able to do it all at once, at the same time. Amazingly they are always there if you need a helping hand. They most probably have the answers, too. Outside professional borders, they are great night owls, supper kakis and provide the shoulder or listening ear you badly need.

At the risk of sounding like an unfaltering robot, we must clarify that awesome people always have their own troubles to deal with. However, they are willing to put that aside to ensure their loved ones are safe and have their hearts in check. You don't have to be that selfless, but a little thought for others goes a long way in making you rad.

6) Great at multi-tasking

Life is super fast-paced now. Your email is flooded, your schedule is packed with coffee meetings and power lunches and let us not even get started on that monster to-do list clouding your thoughts.

You may want to do it all at once, at the same time. We will concur.

7) Independent-natured but part of the team

This is a trait that is not defined by you, but who you are with. If you are not leeching on your friends or family to help you out in every single task you have in life, then there is a high chance that you are bloody awesome by default. Of course a little help is nice, but dependency sets you up for disappointment when no one comes a-knocking.

However, the world is a weird place. No one likes an individualist, one who decides that no one else is part of his or her life. Being a team player is highly important and that means ensuring no one is left out and everyone has his or her time to shine.

8) Dreams big and never grows up

Just because you get older does not mean that it is a prerequisite to conform to society's boring lifestyle. Awesome people come up with crazy ideas and wacky executions because their inner child never left them. All that doodling on the walls with crayons has to bear fruit at some point in life, right?

9)Passionate and oh-so-driven

An awesome person never seems to run out of steam, no? The reason is a very simple one: he or she craves for life. The fact that you are not dead either means the powers that be have a perverse way of prolonging your suffering or you have a few more hours to do what you need to do.

It may be all lovey-dovey and sunshine but passion comes from a guttural want to make it happen for a purpose so strong that it cannot be ignored. It will be so infectious that you will want to do it over and over again.

10) Sulking is for weaklings

At the end of the day, an awesome person just has so much positivity that you wonder if the person has ever been knocked down by a hard truth or a disaster in his or her life.

It must be said that the world ain't full of roses and cute teddy bears. However, what keeps this person going is that no matter what the odds may be, there is always something good in life to focus on. It takes a ton of willpower to block out the negativity but once you do, you will realize that being sad and angry is just a waste of time when you can be grateful for what has been, what is and what may be.

picture of the mth: Dec 12

movies of 2012

http://sg.entertainment.yahoo.com/blogs/singapore-showbiz/best-movies-2012-yahoo-singapore-picks-044451334.html

Out of the top 10 best movies yahoo pick... I've seen 7 of them! hahahhaha it could have been 8 if I could find a partner to watch Looper coz i like Joseph Gordon-Levitt.. too bad I couldnt... hahahaha

and indeed I did enjoyed all the 7 of them...
if I could add on, I would include the Twilight Saga...

Top 3? Tough...

Maybe The Avengers, The Hunger Games and Skyfall... =)

Quote: Dec'12

The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never does anything.
- Theodore Roosevelt

picture of the mth: Nov 12

my november was all about them =P

in the playlist..

Quote: Nov'12

有人曾说过， 迫切渴望能创造姻缘，只有记忆才会成就那瞬间..