my thoughts at 30

Yes folks! I can't wait to be 30 so although I'm only due to this kinda post in September, I already can't wait to do it now =P...  Being real comfortable under my own skin at being 30, I'm most contented and fabulous at present (ok we must always feel good about ourselves k?).. I think when I was 20, I also feel the best at 20 then... so this" feeling-good-about-yourself" spirit should always follow us as we age k? Dont be fearful of growing up, u are only growing wiser =) Aging gracefully will be a goal too..Im glad I've made it this far! And happiest at this stage!

I really dislike blogging so much in contents so I seldom put up real wordy posts. The reason? I'm quite an opinionated person, and this actually result in people telling me I'm weird and unlikeable, they either love me or dislike me =( when actually to me, voicing my own stand is perfectly fine rite? I never force pple to agree with me or be influenced. To each his own right??? But I did mellow down over the years anyway since acceptance normally only comes from people who really know me well and forever can stand me, so there is really no reason to talk so much to those who don't.

The most impt thing I want to share with people at this stage is,

Live life with meaning! =) Don't let setbacks or criticism hinder and steal away your dreams and goals in life. Don't let time flies and then you don't know what you are living for.
For example, if your meaning in life is to bring justice to the world, it is not going to be easy,  you met corrupted people, evil forces, obstacles and failures that can't wait to change you.. Dont change and stick to your meaning and principles in life.. I know I  sound crazy but what I meant is if your meaning is to be a good prosecutor or policeman to uphold justice, stick to it, I salute you and even if you die, you die happy and meaningful and answer to yourself since its really what you truly believe ..
If your meaning in life is to be a good wife or good mother, nurturing your kids to be wonderful happy people is your dream, so be it =)  your life is meaningful and joyful and no dream is too small..
If you aspire to be a supermodel or famous singer in hollywood, pursue! dont let those who laugh at you or say your dreams are too far-fetched stop you and then you give up.. if you settle for less,  you find no joy and value in what you do, what for? you are letting yourself down and merely wasting your life..Thomas Alva Edison failed 100+ times before succeeding, but he sure know what he wants and nvr give up!

I wish someone told me this earlier, I would have been pursuing earlier and easier at 20 maybe, but I'm glad I'm doing so now..
Be very very positive ya? and love generously! May all of us lead awesome meaningful lives..

Euro 2012

We are down to the final four teams of Euro 12 and woahhhhhhh!!!!
I just realised my predictions for the quarterfinals winners were 100% spot on!!!!


Really leh... I picked Portugal over Czechs, Spain over France (I'm huge Espana fan) , Germany over Greece and Italia over English obviously (becoz of my soreness for England) =)


Now down to four... I won't predict anymore but more of support... 
I want SPAIN to win the semis and FINALS!!!! Go GO GO!!!! 
Side Italy to win Germany but may the best team wins for this match since I kinda feel if Germany can perform and play a better match, they deserve to go through and make the finals more worthy to watch and Spain look better if they can win Germany... I used to dislike Germany because they play very defensive, but I think they changed with the younger blood over these years (did they?)


Can't wait to watch the 2 semis! 

my absolute FAVORITE new shorts =P

I think every one of my friends know my fav color is purple, but my absolute favorite is mainly lavender / lilac shades and not all shades of purple especially some rum or deep purple shades (close to indigo) I don't really fancy.

Recently, I found my favourite pair of shorts in such pretty Lavender that I LOVE it TTM.
I match it with everything and it look nice!!!! (to me lah, since its LAVENDER) and I'm like going to handwash it everytime with extra care just because I LOVE the shorts so much - the color and versatility.
LOLL OBSESSED you can call me..

There u go =P

v nice purple rite? bleah

okok
then I'm also mad excited with this white crochet bikini I bought online ytdy which was sold out like 2 mins after I carted out the shopping cart within 5 mins of its launch online??? damn hot stuff... as in the item itself is hot stuff... everyone's snatching it and want a piece...I think CROCHET bikinis are unique and cool... here's the coral version, mine's white color though..

hahhahahaa... that one I'm not going take pic when I try it on as I am scared I will look like a whale in it (white color somemore -_-")... but let's hope (and I pray) it's pretty (the material and fit) when it reaches me and I can pull it off for the beach or pool =D
Summer timeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!

random

okok, I think I may be trying to break a record here by blogging so frequently this June... hahhahaa... since i got a couple of blog posts cooking in my mind, might as well blog it now before I get real busy in July or very very soon... kekez... definitely not keeping this trend because I don't really like to blog too much... no time no contents and a reason I will reveal later on in another upcoming post ;P


my simple pleasure for the night is to ask le boyfriend to open his convertible top, and bring me for a spin at night in this hot humid Singapore weather, let down my hair and let the wind blow all my troubles away!!! wind blow wind!!! then sing/hum on top of our lungs as we blast the cd in the car since no one can hear us in the wind and speed anyway... heh heh... love the wind in my hair and occasional stargaze when I look up in the dark.. loves!


I like the fact that simple stuff can still cheer me up and perk me on a tired, strained or bad day.. like the above instance, or an ice cream, or speciality chocolates, or a goodnight kiss, or sometimes even just a can of diet coke.. ha!.. I'm an uber easily-contented kid at heart..


Do let simple simple things lighten you and brighten up your day! I always emphasize on counting your blessings and positivity... Everyone has their troubles and problems.. the deal is.. how much do you let it affect yourself?

fav celebrity style

I was flipping the magazine the other day, they were asking people on the streets who is their favourite celebrity style?
One replied Angelina Jolie, one Katy Perry, another one say Lady Gaga etc etc...
hahahhaa who's my favourite?
I'm surprised no one mentioned her here.... Although I don't really have a celebrity style that I will follow or madly love, but i guess if I really have to pick one, I have one.. it has to be..... hahahhaa don't tell u yet!
show u my favourite OTD that is inspired by her (her style)  =P

ta-dah! surprise surprise! my favourite OTD out of all my 1000001 OTDs is actually this uber simple outfit: nothing fanciful or sexy or exaggerating at all...

and fav celeb style is British Alexa Chung... hahhahaa adore her effortless chic fashion and this OTD is what she would approve...think my peterpan collar craze is kinda influenced by her maybe.. but of coz I don't copy and go dress like her.. everyone should have their own style.. so I'm still individualist..

Ya, she's another quirky yet natural modern fashionable beauty =)

The Amazing Spider-Man

I'm quite excited bout The Amazing Spider-Man because of the new casting of Peter Parker!
hahahhahaa frankly speaking, I find Andrew Garfield, the new Spider-Man more suitable than the old, Tobey Maguire. I think Andrew G got a genuine geeky air, looks way cuter than Tobey, as well as his thinner frame suits our neighborhood super hero Spider-Man better. Spider-Man is suppose to be all skinny with long legs and hands right which project his superb agile ability, Tobey somehow doesn't fit that well leh, to me la....
We also get to watch Emma Stone, his real gf act with him as a couple on screen. Cool! I like her too, I think she definitely can match up with Kirsten Dunst.
I'm commmming Spidey!!!!!

hahahhaa i have no idea why I haven't blog about Euro 2012 yet. Probably sore about Sweden being crashed out by England wrongfully maybe =p.. and also too distracted by exams (which is over!)... Euro blogging soon! Lovelovelove and love Fabregas and Espana!
and also,  few other entries v soon... Stay tuned!

how things changed

happy fathers day

Words cannot describe how much I detest being treated as a "second-class citizen", as I was very much traumatised and hurt like that during my childhood. it is really extra tough to me even until this date, that "second class" inferior and unfair treatment, the hurt and pain you can never understand unless you have gone through a childhood like mine. So please, please, please and please put me in priority too if u r mine that is, don't be like my childhood monster.. I have absolutely no ability to manage that.

I take after my Daddy alot. All my 优点s (if any) come from him. The bad points and flaws I probably picked up elsewhere myself along the road, nothing to do with him please. He is definitely one of the very few reasons why I am still alive today (yes, childhood was that disastrous), someone I really look up to.. he didn't literally taught me much actually, not like passing me skills or his knowledge, but it is more of like him being there for me and for me to look up to, his character I want and aspire to be, I cannot imagine how twisted my character would be if not for a role model like him.

Happy Fathers' Day!  =)

true love is


sticking thru thick and thin..
debating and not fighting..
agreeing to disagree..
still holding hands while disagreeing..
stating a stand not wanting to win..
caring for what he/she's caring..
worrying for what he/she's worrying..
saying what you truly want to say and listening and accepting no matter what is said.. 
close in the hearts even when you are thousand miles apart..
she injured your arm yet you use that same wounded arm to pull her up at all costs and pain..
she is your wings and you are his wings too..
never giving up, braving thru storms and dancing in the rain together, as long as you r a team, love will lead you there


love is heart felt.. not words, not seen, not heard, not touched, not told..

diva

got reminded of Jlo and hahahhaa wanted so much to dance again, like her! lol... she's just so hawt!!! who cares bout ex-husbands???...who cares bout being 40???  lol
there u go.... dance again!!!

love is in the air

Liam Hemsworth and Miley Cyrus are engaged!.. heh heh..
ok la.. and some other people too... so many love stories blossoming around me =)...

Love stories always touches me!!! (not sharing but i think im coming across some pretty amazing ones)

If you have no idea who Liam Hemsworth and Miley Cyrus are... She is that "Hannah Montana".. I think her voice doesn't match with her age.. I can't tell shes only 19 leh, but that's because I also didn't watch Hannah Montana but just hear her songs on radio.. I think her voice is not bad... and I remember seeing her in some other shows too but forgot what is it le... lol

Liam Hemsworth is Gale of The Hunger Games! Gale is that sweetheart guy from the hometown District 12 of Katniss (Jennifer) who is always there taking care of the family for her while she braved the life or death games. hahahhaa I know his role appear minor in the movie.... but his role will become more and more important in Book 2 and 3 lah... I actually quite like "Gale".. and also, he is the brother of "Thor" (from "The Avengers" & "Snow White") loh... hahahahhaa, both brothers cute right? The Chris Hemsworth...

May all couples be "happily ever after"! :)


You know,

Life is only just a few short years, I shall embrace each & every one of it.. :)

Next..... I know this song is already very famous and old.... but just wanna say its written so pretty that how not to fall in love if a guy sings you something like this right??? <3 loves!

"Oh you know, you know, you know I'd never ask you to change.
If perfect's what you're searching for, Then just stay the same.

So, don't even bother asking, If you look okay; 
You know I say

When I see your face, there's not a thing that I would change
Cause you're amazing, just the way you are
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you're amazing, just the way you are"


XOXO

Simplicity is always my preference

Question: would u ever trust someone who deliver an empty promise again?

Quote: June '12

"The first duty of love is to listen."

picture/video of the mth: May 2012

Finally heard "You & I" live :). Although what the song really meant to me is not there anymore, Lady Gaga is still amazing. Amazing concert