picture/video of the mth: March 2012

the exciting highlight in March is the arrival of our lovely darling, babyboy Oliver =)
picture of him is only at his 2 days old, :)))))))

Don't lose yourself trying to hold onto someone who doesn't care about losing you.

the hunger games

I've been wanting to watch this show since like, hmmm... forever? So I went to catch it right on it's first week of release. The movie was not bad overall. Based on young-adult novel, I thought it was pretty decent for a not-so-young-adult like me. There's a number of media comparison between this trilogy and Twilight, but to me, it's like comparing apple to orange... different plot totally right? One is bout sick reality tv game and the other one is bout supernatural vampires/werewolves.. I enjoyed both movies. So I'm not going to compare them and is equally excited on the sequel to both.

For the hunger games, I'm enticed by the courageous heroine age only 16 in this crazy reality tv game held annually.
I'm not going to do a movie review lah.. but love Jennifer Lawrence's Katniss Everdeen. And since I've always been a fan of real reality tv shows, this storyline intrigues me. Also, movie characters/ storyline that inspire me or give me ample thoughts always score extra brownie points. And this young but strong teenager certainly did set me thinking. Not forgetting she's very chio =)
do catch and make ur own judgement. (but if u r a very sexist man, just stick to John Carter and Wrath of the Titans la)

May the odds be in your favour.....................

p/s: I've also been wanting to bring e lover go watch the new 3D Titanic next month.. it's going to b extra awesome watching this movie together with ur loved one and be touched together by lovebirds Jack and Rose

posted the lyrics back in January.. still liking this awesome simple love song



heartache 101

I remembered 2-3 yrs ago, I was going through a massive heartache, those kind so bad I literally wanna die and see no tomorrow.... I even sourced how to die, it was really vitally bad!!! no joke... so if u ever encounter this kind of unfortunate dark event in life, *touchwood* and please come to me and don't be alone!
FOC, FOC! I'll help u..


so now, I decided to pen down that 123s for the fragile broken hearts in any case.


Heartache 123:


Step 1) Seek help
Acknowledge u have a problem and seek help. No one can perform any miracles to help u, so the help is actually still that listening ear and yes, that shoulder to cry on. That much. However if u don't seek help and u seek death, u r so doomed. so I'll rather u go for the first. U can pour out all ur rantings, sorrow and tears, and then hopefully feel 0.00001% better after confiding. Better than nothing really. Of coz, friends might add in those typical words of wisdom and whatever logical theories 101 also. If u can listen, listen and be motivated. If u can't, u r VERY normal, heart matters where got logic, where won't pain, where got rationale? don't be too hard on yourself. and also, u don't have to listen entirely to what friends tell you to do, they are not you afterall. theory 101 also include no one can help u but yourself, thus gist of it is to remember to try pick urself up when seeking help.


Step 2) Find peace
Find that inner peace in ur innate soul and self. not only the mind. don't go out and blame the whole world except yourself. and vice versa, don't put all the blame on yourself. things don't work out means values and opinions and feelings and desires are mismatch and misunderstood. no one is to be blamed or should be solely responsible. no rights & no wrongs. don't hate. don't be bitter. don't dwell. pointless


Step 3) Move on
the bravest step is to move on, but moving forward is really for no one but yourself, thus, don't deceive yourself when u r not ready yet. Don't ask me what is moving on and how to move on, for everyone's problems/ scenarios and paths are different. for some, it's just not dwelling and forgeting, for some it's going for someone else, for some it can be more drastic. No need to plunge into recovery, no need to be forceful. Route to recovery is never that easy or that straight forward. It may come sooner for some and later for others. No fear!.. Importantly, make sure your moving on is for a positive cause. not for revenge, not for other people, not for any kind of excuses that u will ever look back and regret.


3 steps seems simple in words but it will take a whole lot more than that. Alotalotalotalotalotalotalotalotalotalot more, I know, trust me, no one knows better.
Frankly, I think no one ever deserves to go through all these shit. Hope you guys will never ever need to be in this plight.


XOXO


p/s: one of the 101 theories pple like to tell me and I dislike the most cum can nvr adhere is: "Love urself more"
I'm not born this way nor structured this way. if I ever become like that, I'm not me anymore. bleah

This is a real difficult time for me, but when I thought of u, yours must 100times worse.
Therefore, no matter how weak, lousy and torn I am,  wish I can give u all my remaining strength to tide this.
God bless

Quote of the month: Mar '12

"Anyone can love a thing because that's as easy as putting a penny in your pocket. But to love something despite To know the flaws and love them too. That is rare and pure and perfect."