Have u heard the news?

News: Hollywood stars Scarlett Johansson and Ryan Reynolds are to divorce after 2 years of marriage.


Personally, I find Scarlett extremely sexy and hot! after watching few of her movies, she simply is a gorgeous sexy magnet to me.. attract me v v very much! If im a les, she's gonna be my top goddess.. muahahaha

As for Ryan, didn't notice him til his recent movie with Sandra Bullock, The Proposal... yeap! he's equally attractive, gorgeous and cute as well... Together, what a great-looking couple they make! looks fun, exciting & compatible....
but then why these many Hollywood couples don't last?? =(

Still... all the best to them in their respective new singlehood life!

Beauty tips

I nvr really blog beauty tips in my blog because
1) i don't think im a "beauty enough for it" (simple terms: im not a beauty so tips from me is not convincing)
2) don't know if anyone reading my blog is interested at all..

anyway today, i change my mind in case some ladies are really reading and want me to share... and also.. (nothing else to blog about! =X)... erm erm... I've become slightly better-looking and slimmer compare to let's say 10 yrs back?.. hahahhaa slight improvement lah.. don't shoot me and say i think im pretty k? I KNOW I'M NOT.. at least got improve abit rite? i try to be presentable loh...

well well well...
firstly...

1) don't go to New York Skin Solutions... it doesn't work for me.. sucks... wasted thousands of dollars (on facial package for 2 yrs) there and doesn't work at all... results may vary so if u don't take my advise.. okie loh.. hope they worked for urs then

2) sunblock is a must for everyday... but sometimes when i don't get out in the sun.. i do get lazy and skip it.. when everyone else ask me not to be... so don't be as lazy as me and do it everyday... or try to be like me... everyday apply as long as i'm out in the sun..

3) we ladies, tend and love to try new products and pile alot of creams, toner, essence and whatever on the face.. and then complain they are not effective or what...
"less is more!" do let ur skin rest a little and perhaps they can absorb abit better later on...
rest a little as in: not to put products for a few days before u try new stuffs? go nude on the face 1-2 days... else everything doesn't work... ur skin is over-exposed to too many stuffs (chemicals or vits).. a break wouldbe good..
(actually I don't like to try new products now... hahaha.. in the past perhaps..)

4) start using eye creams/ gel if you haven't already... skin around my eyes aged the fastest =(... i think this applies to all of us... do start to take care of it...

5) as im writing this.. my right cheek is feeling itchy and all... rashes again! (of coz not scratching k? cannot scratch) how ironic!.. i need ur beauty tips instead! someone..... pls share tips bout this to me... lol... my skin is just hyper-sensitive lah... rashes come quite often.. sighz

6) clean ur face not more than 2 times a day.. once before bed and once in the morning..
too much cleaning stripped off the natural oils and keep ur skin dry and dull.. i supposed that's overcleaning!

7) apply makeup moderately.. if u r a pro.. go ahead flaunt ur skills! some pple are jus super chio and make-up like professional models man! envious... if u r not.. put less loh.. don't experiment everything at once and look like some wayang actresses.. and everyone needs a little makeup bah... esp when you go out.. so don't be too bare also.. esp when dating ;p...

8) sleep 7 hrs a day! but i jus sleep 5-6 hrs in the weekdays myself.. sighz



ooppssss gtg... will add on when i'm free!

it's December =)

Alloooooo peeps!

it's a season to be joyous... so whatever it is... if u r my friend and is feeling grumpy or low.. do reach me, i hope i can lift your spirits and remind u its xmas & newyearrrr season! Lighten up!! =)

hahahha i think my blog is crappy and shallow man!

compared to the people who writes well and write a lot alot in their blogs.... don't judge me by my blog k? muahahahaa i already said i don't care about ALL your judgements anyway... i like my blog this way...i am who i am... and my simple crappy entries... hahahaa.. as long as it satisfy me!

since its already December... the very last month of 2010, please remember to spread some love and warmth to those who need it or those u neglected? Still not too late you know... mental note to MYSELF to be more happier & generous & forgiving this month...

im suppose to b busy preparing for my paper... and skiving awhile for now.. gotta get back to my revision soon... next week by this time, exams over! =)

til then,

Love you!

XOXO

my luck has been down recently..

all thanks to the micro-mgmt grandpa at work.... ya .. the boss...
and with exam around the corner (again) im facing double stress!!

that explain my lack of posting... and also... its easier to whine via tweeting then here... faster!
hahahhaa... save u guys from my whines...

i will update soonz! when there's more time and happier stuff :)

promise!

im back... from Bintan... to work...=(

the pics =)

me on the ferry!
just reached Nirwana gardensstrolling in the beach....
the babes below:

us with food!! us doing spa!!

TGIT... because tomorrow's Deepavali.. =D
meet up with my fav girl yest to celebrate her belated birthday but left her pressie in my office forgot to bring it out... stupid.die.me!!! totally spoil my own mood for the stupidity.. brought my camera out though... let me upload our photos during the long weekend..

Hope u guys have a good holiday...

XOXO

I actually think Thomas (howard) is very cute! and his 92% good-looking scientific experiment turns me on... muahahha.. im sure im symmetrically buang(u gotta watch the channel 501 to know what im talking about) he and Larissa would make a very nice looking couple.. hahahha... so is that Pavle Sabic... .. hot! damn hot this Pavle! been chasing the episodes for this 2 guys... and I don't think Jonny's attractive actually...bleah!... hes so not my cup of tea... dunno why he won...

muahahhaa no more gorgeous guys and ladies to watch! yawnzzzz!

Life As We Know It

Caught this movie in the weekend.. by Katherine Heigl and Josh Duhamel.

I can say by now, me and my dearest are fans of Katherine Heigl, she is just so pretty and easy on the eyes.. funny and all.. it is like her every movie, we have went to support it in the cinema these days... and the genre of movies she chose to act is like: always romantic comedies... my fave genre!

and Josh Duhamel!! surprise! was even funnier and eye candy as well... with tall built and muscular frame... yummy... (i remember the hunky handsome him in the fountain and coin show rite?, ya i just googled, its "When in Rome"! the movie starring him too which i watched not too long ago..)

Overall I liked it, their chemistry (and the fact that yes, couples are not perfect, they quarrel, its okie to be imperfect) and cutie baby Sophie..

Critics give them 3 stars, i give them 4! for both leading artistes =D

=(

I don't get upset over each and every piece of news but this one saddens me:

http://news.xin.msn.com/en/regional/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4421836

=(
Upset me when hearing about the news of the two natural disasters in Indonesia that have resulted in the many loss of innocent lives, the Mentawai Island tsunami and the Mount Merapi volcanic eruption.

God bless.. =((

Guide to a better life

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

to maintain a r/s?

from the ladies pt of view, we need constant TLC...tender loving care... constant!
and also some sweet little surprises or romantic elements now and then, I'm easy to please! cant say the same about the rest the ladies and all...

how about men? (roars: TELL ME????)
basic thing i find that, we ladies, should be good listeners.. sometimes when men got their woes, they need a decent listener to be supportive and care for them...

another thing is to keep up with your looks and appearance, not every guy need that.. but some men are... merely shallow.. like it or not, maintaining your appearance keeps them from straying also...

then then then: to give and take... stop complaining so much, but must talk and communicate often, sweet nothings advisable =) !

then most imptly, activities together! passion drives passionate passion! muahahhaa
talking more and more senseless... this is just super brief k... no time today! to go deep into such an interesting topic, alotalot of elements and levels one k?... Me ain't love guru either... =)..

one day after my post on couples splitting (look at my last post), msn also do a coverage today! such coincidence..

here goes:

http://entertainment.xin.msn.com/en/celebrity/buzz/asia/photos.aspx?cp-documentid=4410583

men and women can both be heartless

last nite I met up with my uni friends which inspired me to today's question..
Why do relationship flames die off?

what happened was: my friend was telling me her friend's story... (really not my story!!!) Can't tell names to protect innocent parties whom I don't even actually know..

This Guy A, his girlfriend of 10 years who he proposed to, and already shared to buy a condo with, bought wedding package with, runs away!... yes! the girl friend aka wife-to-be run away with another guy... =(
okie, it's not literally run away but something like walk off from the relationship overnight (or over a few days etc).. a ten-years relationship! cant be compared to this new guy, who apparently could be a little more attractive as this thirdparty is an Italian guy..
I feel sad for Guy A not as a friend (coz I dunno him mah) but as a stranger listening to his story... why is that woman so heartless!?!??! I thought only men are capable of such things?

so moral of the story is, both guys and girls are capable of being heartbreakers and total bullies... why a 10-yr relationships flame would just die off like that?? and not like our parents era of "happily ever afters?"

okie maybe i should make less of a hoohaa since they are like not even married yet (but still TEN YEARS leh! -_-") and couples do bond and break easily before marriage.. BUT..
Why are there so many married couples breaking up too!! like latest Courtney Cox and David Arquette and Christina Aguilera and her husband etc and lots more?

they were like soooooo much in love once rite? everyone of them and also everyone of us
so how do we keep the flame going on strong?

Make it a point my dearest friends... Every relationship should be carefully managed, no matter long or short, married or not.. put our best efforts and foot in consistently, don't neglect and we will have lesser regrets...
I used to have a very naive thinking that as long as 2 person both love each other and make a point to keep a relationship going, it will all worked out eventually rather magically or easily.. but at "modern days" like this, where there are simply too much 3rd 4th 5th 6th...7th...factors.. I have to admit I'm too traditional and naive (stupid) for this love game... nothing is impossible and anything can happen..
(of course, do not start being over-doubtful or overbearingly concern or suspicious or careful lah, scary leh!)

more on this topic til then...

Love the way you lie - Eminem

Top of my playlist... for sometime alrdy.. oh! i can only do Rihanna's part.. hahaha

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
That's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
That's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

I can't tell you what it really is, I can only tell you what it feels like
And right now it's a steel knife in my windpipe
I can't breathe but I still fight while I can fight
As long as the wrong feels right it's like I'm in flight
High off her love, drunk from my hate, it's like I'm huffin' pain
And I love it the more I suffer, I suffocate
And right before I'm about to drown, she resuscitates me, she fckkin' hates me
And I love it, "wait, where you goin'?"
"I'm leavin' you," "no you ain't come back"
We're runnin' right back, here we go again
It's So insane, cause when it's goin' good it's goin' great
I'm superman with the wind at his back, she's Lois Lane
But when it's bad it's awful, I feel so ashamed I snap
Whose that dude? I don't even know his name
I laid hands on her
I'll never stoop so low again
I guess I don't know my own strength

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

You ever love somebody so much you can barely breathe
When you with em you meet and neither one of you even know what hit em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling
Yeah them chills used to get em
Now you're getting fuckin' sick of lookin' at em
You swore you'd never hit em, never do nothin' to hurt em
Now you're in each other's face spewin' venom in your words when you spit em
You push pull each other's hair
Scratch claw hit em throw em down pin em
So lost in the moments when you're in em
It's the rage that's the culprit, controls you both
So they say it's best to go your seperate ways
Guess that they don't know ya
Cause today that was yesterday
Yesterday is over, it's a different day
Sound like broken records playin' over
But you promised her next time you'll show restraint
You don't get another chance
Life is no nintendo game, but you lied again
Now you get to watch her leave out the window
Guess that's why they call it window pane

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Now I know we said things, did things, that we didn't mean
And we fall back into the same patterns, same routine
But your temper's just as bad as mine is, you're the same as me
When it comes to love you're just as blinded
Baby please come back, it wasn't you, baby it was me
Maybe our relationship isn't as crazy as it seems
Maybe that's what happens when a tornado meets a volcano
All I know is I love you too much to walk away though
Come inside, pick up the bags off the sidewalk
Don't you hear sincerity in my voice when I talk?
Told you this is my fault, look me in the eyeball
Next time I'm pissed I'll aim my fist at the drywall
Next time there won't be no next time
I apologize even though I know it's lies
I'm tired of the games I just want her back
I know I'm a liar if she ever tries to fuckin' leave again
I'ma tie her to the bed and set this house on fire
Just gonna

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Realize that compromises must be made and that people need to make some adjustments in terms of expectations and boundaries. This is the only way to have a harmonious pairing at this time.

thank god (for yes.. you know i know dont need everyone to know)... grateful for the good news... =)
I better be more grateful for the little little things in my life... yes!... for every nice angels around me..

Toooooo many Sep photos.... but jus post 1 each... hahaha lazyness

my celebration with the ladies...my birthday itself!

Angie's wedding!

Baby's birthday...

don't worry...i didn't went missing.. I'm still fine and around... but Sept is such a busy (and spending) month that I didn't even have time for updates... here comes October 1st! (and Sept shares of photos soon)... Hope everyone will have a fantastic last quarter of the year too!... shall try to post the Sept photos this weekend hopefully!
XOXO..

Just the way you are - Bruno Mars

Oh her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they’re not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying

She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Yeah I know, I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don’t see what I see

But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

Her nails, her nails
I could kiss them all day if she’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy

She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Oh you know, you know, you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same

So don’t even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

Sept is a spending, busy but happy month!

the title- that explains my lack of posting ya?




Every one's birthday is in Sept! =) including yours truly...
"my sweetheart bought me a sweetheart"

gotta buy nice pressies for my 2 love ones... my bro and my baby


then bought the Iphone 4G for myself! muahhaha.. my birthday k? of coz can pamper myself rite?...some more is re-contract pricing (ya my Iphone 3 is 2-yrs old lu!)... so got discount k..



then there is Angie's wedding and Felicia's baby shower... spend spend spend


then then there is mooncake (mid autumn) festival.. spend spend spend...


then my follow-up appt with the skin doctor... so so so... here i am... BROKE (once again)! but happy!

Lovelove everyone! shall post some photos when those events are over...