relationship

relationship - I've got this damn weird mindset - I've always think a relationship can be maintain for a very long time easily (like forever) as long as both got the heart to do so.. like the mushy song "my heart will go on" u know?.. the reason for breakups is simply- one person don't want to go on anymore (or in some worse senarios- both of them doesn't bother to carry on).. so as long as both person got the "heart".. things can be fine.. no one should let go..
why complicate things when one can be much prettier and easier in simple forms?
I still don't believe in FOREVER, haha dont get me wrong..
still searching but if u are in one, just be more generous & patient, don't let down on your heart..

he told me he learn some things from me when he's with me.. =) but I told him each of us grow from time to time.. Seeing a better light, perhaps changing for the "better" as we age & get exposed to new things, so vice versa, I learn things from him as well..
he told me my "flaws" and his reasons for being skeptical.. I listened
Respect the differences! else someone would have to change.. the best if both compromise but keep expectations to the minimal.. keep ur feelings positive.. thing may not work out (nothings impossible as well as nothings forever).. but Goodluck! Seize the moment for there will be no room for regrets..

How to judge between too egoistic & mere high self-esteem? positive or negative? Subjective I say.. its jus differentiate by a fine line.. different pple will have different set of standards, opinions & tolerance for it.. why be so self-defensive? we all could be wrong.. u can be damn wrong, I can be wrong.. why not? don't deprive me from conveying my msgs..

if by now u don't understand what i mean.. it should be the way.. Im jus blogging for myself..

The Devil Wears Prada

I'm kinda looking forward to watch this movie.. its made from a book actually and I almost bought it.. but somehow later, I kinda figure out I might never have the time to myself to actually complete a book, so let's not waste money and catch the film instead..

THE GREATEST ADVICE -Rick Warren, the Purpose Driven Life

Don't date because you are desperate.
Don't marry because you are miserable.
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior. (as in!)
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.
Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough & know better.Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don't stagnate! (enjoy life get out of your confort zone)Don't regress. (too much...)Don't live in the past.
Time can't bring anything or anyone back.
Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr. / Ms. Right.
Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr./Ms. Wrong because your biological clock is ticking. (like dis one!)
Learn a new skill.Find a new friend.Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for someof life's more hasty decisions.
To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy. (st. bernard or great dane)Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.
To make yourself happy, pursue your passions & be the best of what youcan be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits, and dangerous liaisons.
Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.
Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself. (stand up, be proud!)
Don't commit when you are not ready.Don't keep others waiting needlessly.Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.Say those words.
Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.
Write poetry.Love Deeply.Walk barefoot. (on fire, he, he, he)
Dance with wild abandon.Cry at the movies.Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you.(yah!)
You light up your life.You drive yourself to your destination.No one completes you - except YOU. ( i complete ME!)
It isn't true that life does not get easier with age.It only gets more challenging.Don't be afraid. Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.
Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in God.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of yourlife that you'll never get back.
Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do orprovide for others, but how much we give of ourselves .

I watched The BreakUp at The Cathy! I kinda always mention the movies I watch in my blog (so boring hor) but its because I like Jennifer Aniston.. I watched her Rumour has it, Derailed and now this.. and I still find her very charming, witty and pretty! =D
I can relate to this story very well.. so i guess most couples can ba.. the arguements are so honest & realistic.. funny but not "great".. ..oh ya.. half of us were curious of how's Jennifer's new bf is like right? And although this "Gary", Vince is not handsome at all, I still consider him quite pleasant-looking ba.. I think he can afford to shed a few more pounds though..

Arsenal drew their opening match at Emirates Stadium with Aston V! =(.. nvm... we will do better... without Pires, Campbell & Ashley Cole... Abit more handicap hor?

Oh ya.. forgot to mention i tried another flavour at Ben & Jerry's, Cherry Gracia. Nice! i've always like cherries on top of my icecreams.. this flavour allows me to do away with that..

Because faith, is believing that something is there even without us seeing it.

my weekend

my weekend was a mixture of the good & bad.. alot of times we tend to blog our fustrations more so this time round.. perhaps i should jus fill in here with the pretty ones and leave the rest behind

I finally saw the pretty fireworks (the france one) on Sat! near marina square with my dearest one and to me, its like a mini dream come true.. i didnt have the best spot neither the best mood that moment but.. im easily-contented girl and im glad to c it..

I almost had a chance to go on a much desired holiday with my dear friend, ... but it didnt work out although I really yearn * 1000 for it.. I had to give it up on my part becoz of my silly mistake.. Almost.. things could only get better and not worse the next time ba.. =) I should... console myself that I need not worry bout the expenses at least?

I had a very sweet dream! yes.. its only a dream! but mind u.. its a wonderful lovely dream come true in the dream.. haha... a dream i had pin for more than 8 years.. had finally been fulfilled in my dreams... so ironic but still.. better than nothing..
sometimes, when u hope for the hopeless too much, u have sub-conciously let it go alrdy.. this dream can only make me happier and not less..

Soccer is back.. community shield jus ended with Liverpool edging over Chelsea this time but what matters really is this means a start of a Brand new EPL season.. yey! Can finally c my new stadium (Arsenal's one of coz) and new/old players in action..

forgot to mention im HAPPY my super idol Dunga is appointed coach of Brazil national squad.. I cross my fingers and wish he can last 4 yrs til the next WorldCup2010 to lead the Brazilians!!

I want to start reading my book soon.. been so busy and also busy finding excuses to start.. hopefully by this week I can do so.. heard its good & one of the best sellers.. will share more if i can eventually start and complete it.. haha.. "don't wanna overpromise".. one of my all-time principle..

Christina Aguilera's & Justin Timberlake's album is finally releasing soon (by Sept 06).. Anticipating them to blow me away upon their arrivals..

Ben & Jerry ice cream

Im indulging in new stuff again, this time, we bought 2 tubs of Ben & Jerry Icecream from Cold Storage! (yummy yummy) @ $11.50 each

The Strawberry CheeseCake flavour is very special & nice!! Once I start digging, I could hardly stop (sounds like Pringles eh).. The other one I bought is New Yolk Super fudge Chunks flavour I think, is very chocolate & yummy too.. so troubled.. dont know next time should i try other flavours or stick to this 2 since I like it sooo much.. haha..

Alternatively, U can still go to Billy Bombers to drink their Milkshake loh.. heard that its from Ben & Jerry as well.. (the milkshake there) Its addictive~!

Anyway, strange, that time I went Great World City and eat at the Ben & Jerry icecream parlour there and it was so abit disappointing, perhaps I chose a wrong flavour that day.. Oror digging from the huge tub is more enjoyable?

Those who know me will know that i prefer Elvin than Julian in the recent MediaCorp 9pm show..
I don't really fancy local dramas anymore... so its only once in awhile I catch any MediaCorp's drama.. so these two recent shows are the considered exceptions... one is becoz of Fann Wong then I watch (the one Chen Hanwei & Edmund Chen fight over her).. This AiQingLingDuC is becoz give Elvin face then I watch loh...
His role inside.. Weixiang is Mr Good Guy wor.. therefore I like the ending very much.. Touching.. the unconditional love from him is so rare & heartwarming... yet considered old-fashion storyline if u ask me.. haha..
anyway.. Kudos to the scriptwriter of the creation of this Mr nice guy character WeiXiang and Elvin for potraying it well.. needless to say.. Hes cute!..

the coast is clear!

Anyway was watching the Singapore Idol this week, its still Hady & Jonathon who are impressive.. Paul Twohill needs to pick his songs correctly and Nurul needs to find a style.. Still prefer this 4 out of the pack..

Im going to give up the chance to go for the audition..
something i always wanted to try but now..
Kinda no mood.. becoz of the worst senario..
wish me luck!

"There seems to be a kind of order in the universe... in the movement of the stars and the turning of the Earth and the changing of the seasons. But human life is almost pure chaos. Everyone takes his stance, asserts his own right and feelings, mistaking the motives of others, and his own"
quoted from Katherine Anne Porter