=(

I don't get upset over each and every piece of news but this one saddens me:

http://news.xin.msn.com/en/regional/article.aspx?cp-documentid=4421836

=(
Upset me when hearing about the news of the two natural disasters in Indonesia that have resulted in the many loss of innocent lives, the Mentawai Island tsunami and the Mount Merapi volcanic eruption.

God bless.. =((

Guide to a better life

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Personality:
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment
3. Don't over do; keep your limits
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip
6. Dream more while you are awake
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need..
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
13. Smile and laugh more
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:
15. Call your family often
16. Each day give something good to others
17. Forgive everyone for everything
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day
20. What other people think of you is none of your business
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do.
23. GOD heals everything
24. Do the right things
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
27. The best is yet to come
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy.

to maintain a r/s?

from the ladies pt of view, we need constant TLC...tender loving care... constant!
and also some sweet little surprises or romantic elements now and then, I'm easy to please! cant say the same about the rest the ladies and all...

how about men? (roars: TELL ME????)
basic thing i find that, we ladies, should be good listeners.. sometimes when men got their woes, they need a decent listener to be supportive and care for them...

another thing is to keep up with your looks and appearance, not every guy need that.. but some men are... merely shallow.. like it or not, maintaining your appearance keeps them from straying also...

then then then: to give and take... stop complaining so much, but must talk and communicate often, sweet nothings advisable =) !

then most imptly, activities together! passion drives passionate passion! muahahhaa
talking more and more senseless... this is just super brief k... no time today! to go deep into such an interesting topic, alotalot of elements and levels one k?... Me ain't love guru either... =)..

one day after my post on couples splitting (look at my last post), msn also do a coverage today! such coincidence..

here goes:

http://entertainment.xin.msn.com/en/celebrity/buzz/asia/photos.aspx?cp-documentid=4410583

men and women can both be heartless

last nite I met up with my uni friends which inspired me to today's question..
Why do relationship flames die off?

what happened was: my friend was telling me her friend's story... (really not my story!!!) Can't tell names to protect innocent parties whom I don't even actually know..

This Guy A, his girlfriend of 10 years who he proposed to, and already shared to buy a condo with, bought wedding package with, runs away!... yes! the girl friend aka wife-to-be run away with another guy... =(
okie, it's not literally run away but something like walk off from the relationship overnight (or over a few days etc).. a ten-years relationship! cant be compared to this new guy, who apparently could be a little more attractive as this thirdparty is an Italian guy..
I feel sad for Guy A not as a friend (coz I dunno him mah) but as a stranger listening to his story... why is that woman so heartless!?!??! I thought only men are capable of such things?

so moral of the story is, both guys and girls are capable of being heartbreakers and total bullies... why a 10-yr relationships flame would just die off like that?? and not like our parents era of "happily ever afters?"

okie maybe i should make less of a hoohaa since they are like not even married yet (but still TEN YEARS leh! -_-") and couples do bond and break easily before marriage.. BUT..
Why are there so many married couples breaking up too!! like latest Courtney Cox and David Arquette and Christina Aguilera and her husband etc and lots more?

they were like soooooo much in love once rite? everyone of them and also everyone of us
so how do we keep the flame going on strong?

Make it a point my dearest friends... Every relationship should be carefully managed, no matter long or short, married or not.. put our best efforts and foot in consistently, don't neglect and we will have lesser regrets...
I used to have a very naive thinking that as long as 2 person both love each other and make a point to keep a relationship going, it will all worked out eventually rather magically or easily.. but at "modern days" like this, where there are simply too much 3rd 4th 5th 6th...7th...factors.. I have to admit I'm too traditional and naive (stupid) for this love game... nothing is impossible and anything can happen..
(of course, do not start being over-doubtful or overbearingly concern or suspicious or careful lah, scary leh!)

more on this topic til then...

Love the way you lie - Eminem

Top of my playlist... for sometime alrdy.. oh! i can only do Rihanna's part.. hahaha

Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
That's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
That's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

I can't tell you what it really is, I can only tell you what it feels like
And right now it's a steel knife in my windpipe
I can't breathe but I still fight while I can fight
As long as the wrong feels right it's like I'm in flight
High off her love, drunk from my hate, it's like I'm huffin' pain
And I love it the more I suffer, I suffocate
And right before I'm about to drown, she resuscitates me, she fckkin' hates me
And I love it, "wait, where you goin'?"
"I'm leavin' you," "no you ain't come back"
We're runnin' right back, here we go again
It's So insane, cause when it's goin' good it's goin' great
I'm superman with the wind at his back, she's Lois Lane
But when it's bad it's awful, I feel so ashamed I snap
Whose that dude? I don't even know his name
I laid hands on her
I'll never stoop so low again
I guess I don't know my own strength

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

You ever love somebody so much you can barely breathe
When you with em you meet and neither one of you even know what hit em
Got that warm fuzzy feeling
Yeah them chills used to get em
Now you're getting fuckin' sick of lookin' at em
You swore you'd never hit em, never do nothin' to hurt em
Now you're in each other's face spewin' venom in your words when you spit em
You push pull each other's hair
Scratch claw hit em throw em down pin em
So lost in the moments when you're in em
It's the rage that's the culprit, controls you both
So they say it's best to go your seperate ways
Guess that they don't know ya
Cause today that was yesterday
Yesterday is over, it's a different day
Sound like broken records playin' over
But you promised her next time you'll show restraint
You don't get another chance
Life is no nintendo game, but you lied again
Now you get to watch her leave out the window
Guess that's why they call it window pane

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Now I know we said things, did things, that we didn't mean
And we fall back into the same patterns, same routine
But your temper's just as bad as mine is, you're the same as me
When it comes to love you're just as blinded
Baby please come back, it wasn't you, baby it was me
Maybe our relationship isn't as crazy as it seems
Maybe that's what happens when a tornado meets a volcano
All I know is I love you too much to walk away though
Come inside, pick up the bags off the sidewalk
Don't you hear sincerity in my voice when I talk?
Told you this is my fault, look me in the eyeball
Next time I'm pissed I'll aim my fist at the drywall
Next time there won't be no next time
I apologize even though I know it's lies
I'm tired of the games I just want her back
I know I'm a liar if she ever tries to fuckin' leave again
I'ma tie her to the bed and set this house on fire
Just gonna

[Chorus]
Just gonna stand there and watch me burn
Well that's all right because I like the way it hurts
Just gonna stand there and hear me cry
Well that's all right because I love the way you lie
I love the way you lie

Realize that compromises must be made and that people need to make some adjustments in terms of expectations and boundaries. This is the only way to have a harmonious pairing at this time.

thank god (for yes.. you know i know dont need everyone to know)... grateful for the good news... =)
I better be more grateful for the little little things in my life... yes!... for every nice angels around me..

Toooooo many Sep photos.... but jus post 1 each... hahaha lazyness

my celebration with the ladies...my birthday itself!

Angie's wedding!

Baby's birthday...

don't worry...i didn't went missing.. I'm still fine and around... but Sept is such a busy (and spending) month that I didn't even have time for updates... here comes October 1st! (and Sept shares of photos soon)... Hope everyone will have a fantastic last quarter of the year too!... shall try to post the Sept photos this weekend hopefully!
XOXO..

Just the way you are - Bruno Mars

Oh her eyes, her eyes
Make the stars look like they’re not shining
Her hair, her hair
Falls perfectly without her trying

She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Yeah I know, I know
When I compliment her
She wont believe me
And its so, its so
Sad to think she don’t see what I see

But every time she asks me do I look okay
I say

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

Her nails, her nails
I could kiss them all day if she’d let me
Her laugh, her laugh
She hates but I think its so sexy

She’s so beautiful
And I tell her every day

Oh you know, you know, you know
Id never ask you to change
If perfect is what you’re searching for
Then just stay the same

So don’t even bother asking
If you look okay
You know I say

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

The way you are
The way you are
Girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

When I see your face
There’s not a thing that I would change
Cause you’re amazing
Just the way you are
And when you smile,
The whole world stops and stares for awhile
Cause girl you’re amazing
Just the way you are

Sept is a spending, busy but happy month!

the title- that explains my lack of posting ya?




Every one's birthday is in Sept! =) including yours truly...
"my sweetheart bought me a sweetheart"

gotta buy nice pressies for my 2 love ones... my bro and my baby


then bought the Iphone 4G for myself! muahhaha.. my birthday k? of coz can pamper myself rite?...some more is re-contract pricing (ya my Iphone 3 is 2-yrs old lu!)... so got discount k..



then there is Angie's wedding and Felicia's baby shower... spend spend spend


then then there is mooncake (mid autumn) festival.. spend spend spend...


then my follow-up appt with the skin doctor... so so so... here i am... BROKE (once again)! but happy!

Lovelove everyone! shall post some photos when those events are over...

unriddle last epi tonight

wow! look at my 20th August post.. I'm a genius and guessed the whole plot already way back then!.. muahahha... *proud*
I guess that's why i excel in phoenix wright and love shows like that! pls employ me to write stories and drama!

okieokie enough of my nonsense... sorry folks!!!...

rude comments

I have to agree... this lady is getting uglier and uglier..

yes... Jolin Tsai... majority on the image... yes the way she portrays herself

who is this Filipino lady?

yes... flaunt ur asset... her nice mid drift but hell... ugly attire... ugly colors too... even I can do better, Jolin... becoz i would nvr use that 2 outfits

it irks me that some people try too hard... yet they just don't know when to stop and wake up and take notice of the adverse effects...

yes I'm talking bout how she wants to prove she's on the ball and as stylish as Ayumi Hamasaki perhaps? or however stylish she is.. backfire lah... snares..

her latest music video image... slightly better... but still... try to hard to flaunt her assets... its not really asset now since she diet too extreme... too skinny.. so ugly!

so I be fair and try hard to find and present to u her "bestest" latest image so far...

wow!!! pretty!!! yes yes... I agree.. very pretty... but hor... FML lah! .. so fake... please compare this pic with the last pic... boob size varies 1-2 cups.. then hor pls continue to compare the last pic with the baby-fats Jolin 10 yrs back... boob size varies another 2-3 cups... wah liew!!! from Cup A to Cup G? this is what i meant: TRY TOO HARD!

What is she thinking? she used to be as flat as Stephanie Sun... I can't be wrong coz I used to like her and read news bout how she and Stephanie share tips to enhance the bust because theirs are simply too small (she's from my Era and was in person in Temasek Poly once to promote her album so no way I'm wrong k?) and would have continued to like her if she isn't trying soooo hard... but all this bust enhancing is OVERBOARD and disgusts me.. who is she trying to kid? Plastic surgery right?... if not.. put so much cushions ah?? please! put cushions also must put moderate capacity mah...doesn't even fit her frame size (height and weight) don't put so much can?... teach all the youngsters the wrong things man... bad influence (silently)... trying to be a sex symbol/goddess ah? I rather go for naturals like Shu Qi or Vivian Hsu..... yucks u!! please wear more clothes and stop showing those fake boobs or padded breasts ~ "long kou"

For the above reasons... I stayed with the Natural Stephanie Sun and not with her... I do like some of her songs, do like her in the beginning of her career and agrees she can sing and dance well... but I don't like her character or the way she bring (portrays) herself nowadays (ya and her infamous diet habits and princess-y temper)... again... simply because she TRIED TOO HARD to be a true "DIVA"..

p/s: sorry for repeating so many TRY TOO HARDs... im trying so hard to prove my point too =p

Step Up 3 and Rick Malambri

oh!.. I watched Step up 3 over the weekend le.. its nice! much better then the "childish" Street dance... hahhaa plot and standard about the same as Step Up 2... i watched in 2D... eh eh that main lead who plays Luke - Rick Malambri hor... resemble my Arsenal Captain - Fabregas leh... muahhahaa see see! okie lah... im not saying they are splitting image lah... but somehow the "air" seems the same leh...
hahahaha


This is Rick Malambri

Below 3 is Cesc Fabregas.............

hahahha same or not? okieokie... maybe the similarity is just to me...

muahaha... Fabregas is actually a smaller size version lah.. since hes younger and shorter..... So ya.. Rick is cuter... hahaha but both i drool k? =)

Unriddle

heyhey... for the Unriddle show at weekdays ch8 9pm by Rui En hor... my guess for the ultimate mean guy (BADDIE!) is Andie Chen Bang Jun(De wei).. that Xiao man's subordinate!! Cannot be Tay Ping Hui (Yu ze) one lah... all evidence pointing to him... where got so stupid if im him... leave so much trail behind...

heh.. i got no inside info hor... purely by guess one... coz even Iweekly also not yet written that part... iweekly havent last episode yet.. so if im correct im a genius k? if im not then.. too bad! its my own plot then.. muahahaha

Muahahha why i guess Andie (De Wei in the show) ah? coz he keep foiling up and being rash loh... being rash is to silent people only... not true rash... then keep saying its tay ping hui he saw etc, all those is to misled the police... hes the ultimate baddie!! and probably son of Chen Tian wen?

im a pig! Click on my picture and read my tweet =P

oh ya... Step up 3 is not Street Dance... 2 different movies, think someone confused and mislead me thinking it was the same... kekez... so I havent watch Step Up 3 yet..

short post again :)

over the weekend... ... I went... erm.. ya... Zouk!
hahahhaa
its at $30 for guys $25 for ladies i think... didnt pay for it so not very sure... Citibank creditcard holders get $10 off i think..

anyway... I dont like the music wor..can barely groove along... tried hard.. and i feel super over-aged in there... all the xiao meimeis and xiao di dis.. seems typical from polys or unis... old old me!!!
if u like angmos.. maybe can go check it out... got a number of ang mo guys picking ladies to accompany them thru the night.. I think la.. and ladies pls protect urself.. pls do not attempt to look for bfs there and say I teach one ah...i didn't.. i don't prefer angmos... I'm fine with asians... but I'm not against going into proper r/s with angmos lah.. those SPGs... okie lah... very open minded.. as long as one is happy.. who cares what u preference is..

okie on Sunday I watched Street Dance.. which is Step Up part 3... hmmm... average film.. no surprises... if u like to watch dance moves.. ... then of coz dont miss it lah... oh i didn't watch the 3D version... just the 2D one... heh... ya and ate the Korean BBQ Chicken... not too bad but too costly..

that sums up my boring weekend... :)

Seven hours the magic number for sleep: study

for the sake of my fellow readers:

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/afp/20100801/tls-health-science-sleep-heart-stroke-aeafa1b.html

pls remember to sleep 7 hrs per day...

hahhahha currently im clocked at around 5-6 hrs in weekdays, 8-10 hours in the weekends..
need to work at one more hour more everyday..

how about you?